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29 May

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I’m having a hair crisis.

For the majority of my life, I was cursed blessed with curly hair. I rocked a big poofy triangle through middle school, because straighteners in the late ’90s were less than desirable. Over the years I’ve managed to refine my mane into something presentable – which means it looks good approximately 10% of the time, at best – but it hasn’t been easy. Even with a live-in hair dresser.

It seems like people with curly hair are constantly on the hunt. We NEED the best products – like, salon grade please! Hell yes I’ll buy that satin pillowcase for $50, if it means the frizz gets under control. Diffuser? Check. Mousse? Check. Hairspray? Check. Hairbrush? ABSOLUTELY NOT!

So far, the thing that has made my hair look best has been pregnancy. I guess it was a nice trade off… “Yes, I’m gigantic and swollen, but my hair looks AMAZING.”

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My hair was thick, it had volume, and the curl was actually pretty. Too bad it all went downhill from there… not that I noticed too much at first, because I lived for the top knot for the first year of my kid’s life.

But now, at 18 months postpartum, my hair has decided to FREAK THE FREAK OUT.

I may as well have a different head on my shoulders. My hair doesn’t want to curl, and only weakly manages a wave. It’s thin, flat, and suddenly oily. Like, I used to go days and days without washing my hair. Now? That’s not happening.

So what’s a girl to do? A few weeks ago I went to my stylist and asked her for a lob. She asked me if I was drunk.

Five inches later, I’m definitely happier with my mane. It feels thicker and healthier, and I’ve started to find a few products that are working for me. I thought I would share the love for this Friday Five, but only if you all tell me your favorite hair care items!

Keep in mind that I don’t use all these products with every wash, but they’re definitely in my arsenal!

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one | I started using OGX Coconut Milk Anti-Breakage Serum approximately once a week to help tame my flyaways. Between pregnancy and postpartum, my hair had a lot of breakage. I use this sparingly to strengthen my hair – but only when I know I’m wearing my hair curly, since it is a little oily. The smell, however, is divine.

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Previously I rarely used heat on my hair, but now I’m finding that I always need either the diffuser or the flat iron. I even own a curling iron for the first time in my life. To protect my hair, I’ve been using Toni & Guy Heat Protection Mist. It helps prevent more breakage and damage, and it leave my hair soft.

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Another thing that makes my hair feel soft? Johnson’s No More Tangles Detangling Spray. Yes, I use my one-year-old’s hair product sometimes. #MomLife. (Although, I’m not sure any professional stylist would recommend it, it’s working for me).

 

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four | Like I said, I’m trying to embrace the waves. Toni & Guy Sea Salt Texturising Spray helps give me a little volume, a little texture, and a tiny bit of hold. I’m still experimenting with this one, but I like to think it’s harnessing what’s left of my curl power into a beachy wave.

Screen Shot 2015-05-28 at 3.23.31 PMfive | My stylist uses Kenra Root Lifting Spray 13, and I finally decided just to buy a can from her. All you do is spray this in a few strategically place parts, and blow dry in the opposite direction for awesome volume. I’m an amateur with the blow dryer, but even so, this stuff makes a difference.

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There you have it! My five favorite hair products of right now! What product/routine/tool can you not live without? Anyone with hair like mine have a good suggestion for shampoo & conditioner?

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  1. Heather Hammel says

    May 29, 2015 at 8:29 am

    Love what I can see of your lob. I usually stick to Garnier Fructis when it comes to shampoo and conditioner. They have so many different types from color treated hair to difficult to straighten hair. I shampoo and condition my hair every other day. On my off days, I use Pssst Dry Shampoo. Ever since it started getting warmer over here on the East Coast, my hair has started getting oily this year. I’m not sure why.

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  2. Stephanie says

    May 29, 2015 at 10:12 am

    OH MY GOODNESS!!! I completely understand…..Lukas will be a year old next week (boy does time fly) and my hair is going through the same nonsense. I like the whole curly/wavy thing my hair had and that I had the option to straighten it if necessary. Now….its extra greasy and limp and has a few waves but thats about it. Ugghhh…. I will have to try a few of these and see if I can get it to do something. (and yes, you are not the only one who uses their toddlers detangling spray sometimes.)

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  3. Sarah @ Foxy's Domestic Side says

    May 29, 2015 at 5:30 pm

    Good tips, and I think your hair is gorgeous! But that pp hair, sucks! and then growing it all back after it’s all fallen out, sucks even more!

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  4. Kelley says

    June 1, 2015 at 12:01 pm

    I know how you feel; I have unruly curly hair too. I got my first flat iron in high school and used it til I was midway through college. Talk about damage! I finally embraced my curls. I use Garnier Fructis shampoo/conditioner, dry my hair with a t-shirt, use mousse or gel, spray with heat protective/volume and use a diffuser. On days I don’t wash I use either just conditioner or a cleaning conditioner (Pantene makes a good one). I recently cut a good chunk of my hair because it wouldn’t do much.

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  5. Valerie Broaddus says

    June 2, 2015 at 12:02 pm

    Crazy mom-hair, party of 1 here in VA. It’s pathetic depressing how sad my hair looks these days. Between having an 8 ½ month old belly crawling around my feet (why, WHY did my husband encourage the baby to crawl?!), and having to leave the house by 6:55am to get to daycare and work, I have zero time to even think about my mop. My topknot game is even sad these days. The texture of my hair, the body and wave I use to have pre-baby has all changed. I spoke with my stylist about shampoo and conditioner and she told me that I cant get that pretty, salon quality hair by buying the crap on sale at the grocery store. So I sucked it up and bought Redkin shamp & cond and have loved it. Granted, I still have zero time to get my hair done in the mornings, but it is the cleanest, shiniest topknot you’ve seen on a sleep deprived mom of a teething baby, ever. 😉
    Love the lob (and I love saying lob)!

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  6. Valerie Broaddus says

    June 2, 2015 at 12:03 pm

    PS- try keeping a container of clear mascara in your purse to tame those stupid fly aways.

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